Well, everybody knows that life is not always as easy as it seems.. Its actauly quite difficult. I'll just be speaking about life, friendship, relationships, as I know it...
Monday, June 26, 2017
Thoughts
Liking someone in this century is so hard, complicated. Like what happened to just coming right out and saying "I like you, too. Let's start something"? But today it's all about not wanting to start anything, "friends with benefits" became a thing, and the minute someone "catches feelings", the other party withdraws themselves. This isn't what having feelings for the someone is about.
It's about going on a date, speaking about everything and nothing, actually just communicating. Don't make the other feel less important than what he/she is. Get to know each other, because you want to knowwhen they having a bad day. Because you want to know how badly they messed up at work, how their crying face looks and how they sing the lyrics to their favourite song wrong. How they blush when they laugh, how they blush when they see you, hear your voice or even hear that laugh of yours. How amazing you make them feel. But you are scared. So you just leave it, you don't reciprocate those feelings because you are scared. You treat that person like crap because you take advantage of the feelings they have for you, all because you're too scared. Scared of what? Feeling too much? Feeling too little? No. Take that chance, go for it. You never know how it's going to turn out. Love unconditionally. Without fear. Without failure. Without having a "back up". Just love.
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Dear Gran,
It was hard to only see you laying in your coffin after not remembering your face for more than 10 years. No matter how hard i tried to keep my tears from falling, they fell anyway. I never knew, in all this time, you'd be taken away before I reconnected with you. There are so many things I wanted to share with you. So many laughs I wanted to laugh with you. So many stories... And now they are fading, fading, gone. All I have no is a picture in a frame, and a memory of how peaceful you looked when we said goodbye. It's hard knowing i'll never hear you speak, laugh, cough, all those little things you used to do. It's all hidden in a little compartment in my memory labelled "Ouma". The view of the mountain from your bed, the warmth of your room, even now that you not there, you'll never be forgotten.
Thank you for what you meant for everyone. Thank you that I could reconnect with the rest of my family. Thank you for bringing us all together. Seems i cannot part from them, they are already a great part of my life. And i never want to lose them again.
I love you Ouma. Forever missed, forever loved.
Can't believe you gone. Rest In Peace
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Good bye
There comes a time in ones life when one has to do the unthinkingable. Saying goodbye to someone close to you, someone you loved, even someone you never saw in 10+ years. But just the thought of never speaking to that person again, never seeing them smile, laugh, never touching their hand again. It's scary. And sad. And we all a bit emotional because this person touched our hearts. Be it a parent, a sibling, a friend or an acquintance. Just the thought of never speaking, or calling that person again. Whether you knew sooner or later they cannot keep fighting the disease they have, whether it was an accident that happened so fast, no one knew it was going to end like this. Nothing prepares one for death. NOTHING.
It goes without saying that one should not be afraid of death. it's not death we afraid of. It's how death will be approching us. God knows how, where and when. Don't question Him. Be glad for the good, bad, happy and sad times you had together. And remember that God is calling all His children back home. Where we belong.
Cry, be angry. Get totally quiet when you remember that person is no longer with you. But remember. You will meet with them again. Soon.
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It goes without saying that one should not be afraid of death. it's not death we afraid of. It's how death will be approching us. God knows how, where and when. Don't question Him. Be glad for the good, bad, happy and sad times you had together. And remember that God is calling all His children back home. Where we belong.
Cry, be angry. Get totally quiet when you remember that person is no longer with you. But remember. You will meet with them again. Soon.
:-)
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