Monday, June 26, 2017

Thoughts

Liking someone in this century is so hard, complicated. Like what happened to just coming right out and saying "I like you, too. Let's start something"? But today it's all about not wanting to start anything, "friends with benefits" became a thing, and the minute someone "catches feelings", the other party withdraws themselves. This isn't what having feelings for the someone is about. It's about going on a date, speaking about everything and nothing, actually just communicating. Don't make the other feel less important than what he/she is. Get to know each other, because you want to knowwhen they having a bad day. Because you want to know how badly they messed up at work, how their crying face looks and how they sing the lyrics to their favourite song wrong. How they blush when they laugh, how they blush when they see you, hear your voice or even hear that laugh of yours. How amazing you make them feel. But you are scared. So you just leave it, you don't reciprocate those feelings because you are scared. You treat that person like crap because you take advantage of the feelings they have for you, all because you're too scared. Scared of what? Feeling too much? Feeling too little? No. Take that chance, go for it. You never know how it's going to turn out. Love unconditionally. Without fear. Without failure. Without having a "back up". Just love.